Money is the root of all evil... this is usually what we normally hear from people who have a wrong religious mindset about money. It is actually the LOVE of money that is the root of all evil and not money itself.
Money is neutral. It is not evil, it is not filthy, and and it wont bring us to eternal damnation! If money is in the hands of bad people, it will be used for bad purpose. But if it is n the hands of good people then it will be used for greater glory of God!
Thus, I submit to T. Harv Eker and to Bro Bo's thesis that first thing we need to do to really be wealthy is to expand our mind wallet so we can attract more money to come into our lives. But I just want to add... not to go to the extent that all we think about is how to make money.
How do we suppose to expand our money mindset? Simple, just think that money is good, money is what we need to be bale to help more people, money must be saved and invested for our future, money is going to bring us to heaven. Be truly wealthy...wealthy people who does not get attached to their wealth but use their wealth for the greater glory of God!
Be truly wealthy and you can be truly happy!
Monday, February 22, 2010
Monday, February 1, 2010
Add "L" into Your Marriage
Marriage is a balance of many aspects and priorities. It is a never ending cycle of ups and downs much like a roller coaster ride.
In my own 25 years of marriage with the same woman, I finally got to realize that the surest way to increase the gap of separation and animosity is by increasing your level of competition.
One area you compete in is who earns more. The man of the house must stand his ground that this is his turf. He is the bread winner. Thus, the husband must ensure his wife will not earn more than he does.
Who wins if I win, or she wins? What's the point? Does it make both of you happy?
What's my solution to bridge the gap is simple. You LOVE your spouse , that is why you married him or her. The purpose of which is not to COMPETE but to COMPLETE. Go back to that purpose. Add that "L" which is LOVE back to your marriage and you'll see happiness and blessings coming back.
God bless!
In my own 25 years of marriage with the same woman, I finally got to realize that the surest way to increase the gap of separation and animosity is by increasing your level of competition.
One area you compete in is who earns more. The man of the house must stand his ground that this is his turf. He is the bread winner. Thus, the husband must ensure his wife will not earn more than he does.
Who wins if I win, or she wins? What's the point? Does it make both of you happy?
What's my solution to bridge the gap is simple. You LOVE your spouse , that is why you married him or her. The purpose of which is not to COMPETE but to COMPLETE. Go back to that purpose. Add that "L" which is LOVE back to your marriage and you'll see happiness and blessings coming back.
God bless!
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