I often hear people say that in a relationship, do not give your all, because if you do, you'll be miserable...
This is self fulfilling prophecy based on a the standards of the "world". What real happy people prescribed to is give your all in your relationships and you'll be happy! I reflected on last Sunday's message of Bro Bo on his brand new series of talk entitled T3: Time, Talent, Treasure... and recalled what he shared about happy and successful marriage.
Happy couples do not just give their token share in the relationship. Happy couples give their all, their 100% and even more. As I reflect on this, I use my math and create the equation :
HAPPY MARRIAGE = or > 100%
HUSBAND's SHARE = H
WIFE's SHARE = W
MARRIAGE = H + W
If H and W are both 100%
MARRIAGE = 100% + 100% = 200% = HAPPY MARRIAGE.
Sometimes, when either feels not so good, is not appreciated, or simply has "sumpong"
either H or W will not be 100%... but since MARRIAGE is H + W , the sum will always
guess what?....More than 100%....
However, for those who are just giving their 50% and waits for their better half to
give their 50%, sometime they do make 100%, but more often they barely hit it...
Give your best in everything, give your all and God will surely reward us!
God bless us all!
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